Building a Memory for Your Lost Loved Ones
A worthy memorial is our only way to show a lost loved one of our love when the person departs physically forever to us. We could build for our lost loved ones a simple headstone with a simple message, or an elaborate kerb set with headstones that are dressy and exquisite, as our signs of showing our lasting love and appreciation.
Aside from the common lawn memorial, others would have a kerb set memorial built for their lost loved ones. You can have a kerb set placed around the burial plot with a stone border. Stone chippings that are available in several colors can be filled on the center area or filled up with earth.
Generally, cremation was discouraged in most religions in the past, but today, these religious restrictions have considerably relaxed and people are now opting for cremation. The fact is many people dislike the idea of their body to slowly rot beneath the earth, thus making cremation a fast and easy way to get rid of the physical body. It is a fact that many people do prefer to leave this worldly existence in a simpler way, and with cremation, the funeral proceedings are actually much simpler.
There is a problem though that cremation would pose a problem when you want visit a loved one, as compared to visiting a grave and offering flowers there for example. In answer to this problem, there are many memorials today for cremated bodies. Cremation plots are available for those who choose to bury the remains, although there are also others who would opt to scatter the remains. In answer to the problem of where to visit a loved one, these cremation plots is it, plus it is less expensive that a burial plot and takes a much lesser space. .
There are now various choices for the memorial of your lost loved one, from plaques to cremation headstones to kerb sets. The material of headstones is usually granite and it comes in several different shapes like heart shaped and rectangular and so on, and colors. These headstones can also be done in unique shapes as you like, and put beautiful images whatever is your motif, plus you can write your personal message on it. A flower holder is another option available for headstones.
Kerb sets for cremation are also available with several choices, and these are pretty and not as big as those used on burial grounds. You can find elaborate or simple plaques with different shapes depending on what you want. Thus, there are several choices that we should respect on how to commemorate our deceased love ones, and whatever it is, we should have the choice on how and in what manner we want it to be.